Comments on: A piece of advice http://slashfoo.com/blog/2008/06/06/a-piece-of-advice/ A way to vent out, comment, announce, etc... Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:37:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: fmas1719 http://slashfoo.com/blog/2008/06/06/a-piece-of-advice/#comment-14 fmas1719 Mon, 23 Jun 2008 14:20:30 +0000 http://slashfoo.com/blog/?p=17#comment-14 My advice? Expanded upon it some time ago, but it boils down to this: forget about other people's doings or undoings, and concentrate on your own (and only your own). Create a self-awareness that you notice how what you do affects others, and self-correct accordingly based on this perception. Conversely, don't take on the task of explicitly looking after other's wrongs, because it has its own deal of negative outcomes, like it or not, be it a loved one, friend, acquaintance, or 'enemy'. If you need to say something to them regardless, then tell them this same thing I'm telling you. This pretty much covers it, though there's a lot to say on the topic. ;) My advice? Expanded upon it some time ago, but it boils down to this: forget about other people’s doings or undoings, and concentrate on your own (and only your own). Create a self-awareness that you notice how what you do affects others, and self-correct accordingly based on this perception.

Conversely, don’t take on the task of explicitly looking after other’s wrongs, because it has its own deal of negative outcomes, like it or not, be it a loved one, friend, acquaintance, or ‘enemy’. If you need to say something to them regardless, then tell them this same thing I’m telling you.

This pretty much covers it, though there’s a lot to say on the topic. ;)

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